I try to forget about the expectation that's out there and the audience listening for the next thing so that I'm not trying to please them. I've spent a huge amount of time not communicating with those folks and denying that they exist.

  • -- Chuck Palahniuk 恰克·帕拉尼克

我试着忘记外面的期望和听众对下一件事的期待,这样我就不会试图取悦他们。我花了大量时间不与这些人交流,否认他们的存在。

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The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention.... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

与他人沟通最基本、最有力的方式就是倾听。只是听。也许我们给予彼此的最重要的东西就是我们的关注…爱的沉默往往比最善意的话语更能治愈伤痛,更能沟通。

I didn't expect to be doing a whole bunch of Amber Browns. And because it was just one book, and the father had moved away, I didn't realize I was going to have to deal more with shared custody, divorce and all those issues.

我没想到会做这么多琥珀色的棕色。因为只有一本书,而且父亲已经搬走了,我没有意识到我将不得不更多地处理共同监护权、离婚和所有这些问题。

The paradox of Steve Jobs's career is that he had no interest in listening to consumers - he was famously dismissive of market research - yet nonetheless had an amazing sense of what consumers actually wanted.

史蒂夫•乔布斯职业生涯的矛盾之处在于,他对倾听消费者的需求毫无兴趣——众所周知,他对市场研究不屑一顾——然而,他对消费者真正想要什么有着惊人的感觉。

The present hardly exists, after all-it becomes the past even as it happens. A tricky medium, time - and central to the concerns of fiction.

毕竟,现在几乎不存在,即使它发生了,它也会成为过去。一个棘手的媒介,时间-和中心的关注小说。

From now until the end of time no one else will ever see life with my eyes, and I mean to make the best of my chance.

从现在到世界末日,没有人会用我的眼睛来看待生活,我要充分利用我的机会。

Sometimes when we forget to do things for others, it's because we're too wrapped up in our own problems.

有时候我们忘记为别人做事,是因为我们太专注于自己的问题。

When you make speeches you elicit expectations against which you will be held accountable.

当你发表演讲时,你会引起人们对你的期望,而你将被追究责任。

I bet you'll never remember the things i'll never forget.

我打赌你永远不会记得我永远不会忘记的事情。