The person doing the worrying experiences it as a form of love; the person being worried about experiences it as a form of control.

  • -- John Lanchester 兰彻斯特

焦虑的人把它作为一种爱的形式来体验;担心的人把它当作一种控制的形式。

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Needless fear and panic over disease or misfortune that seldom materialize are simply bad habits. By proper ventilation and illumination of the mind it is possible to cultivate tolerance, poise and real courage.

对很少发生的疾病或不幸的不必要的恐惧和恐慌仅仅是坏习惯。通过适当的心灵交流和启迪,就有可能培养宽容、沉着和真正的勇气。

Sweep the dirt from in front of your own door, and don't worry about your neighbour's.

打扫自家门前的灰尘,不要担心邻居的。