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A thoroughly good relationship with ourselves results in being still, which doesn't mean we don't run and jump and dance about. It means there's no compulsiveness. We don't overwork, overeat, oversmoke, overseduce. In short, we begin to stop causing harm.

  • -- Pema Chodron 生命不再等待

与自己保持良好的关系会让我们保持静止，但这并不意味着我们不会到处跑、跳、跳。这意味着没有强迫性。我们不会过度工作，过度饮食，过度吸烟，过度诱惑。简而言之，我们开始停止制造伤害。

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Habit is a second nature that destroys the first. But what is nature? Why is habit not natural? I am very much afraid that nature itself is only a first habit, just as habit is a second nature.

习惯是第二天性，它能破坏第一天性。但什么是自然?为什么习惯不是自然的?我很担心，自然本身只是第一个习惯，就像习惯是第二天性一样。

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To be loved for what one is, is the greatest exception. The great majority love in others only what they lend him, their own selves, their version of him.

真正被爱，是最大的例外。绝大多数人只爱他们借给他的东西，他们自己，他们自己的版本的他。

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To cease smoking is the easiest thing I ever did; I ought to know because I've done it a thousand times.

戒烟是我做过的最容易的事;我应该知道，因为我已经做过一千次了。

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To say "we" and mean "I" is one of the most recondite insults.

说“我们”和“我”是最深奥的侮辱之一。

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