A thoroughly good relationship with ourselves results in being still, which doesn't mean we don't run and jump and dance about. It means there's no compulsiveness. We don't overwork, overeat, oversmoke, overseduce. In short, we begin to stop causing harm.

  • -- Pema Chodron 生命不再等待

与自己保持良好的关系会让我们保持静止,但这并不意味着我们不会到处跑、跳、跳。这意味着没有强迫性。我们不会过度工作,过度饮食,过度吸烟,过度诱惑。简而言之,我们开始停止制造伤害。

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Relationships are all there is. Everything in the universe only exists because it is in relationship to everything else. Nothing exists in isolation. We have to stop pretending we are individuals that can go it alone.

人际关系就是一切。 宇宙中的一切之所以存在,只是因为它是存在的 和其他一切的关系。没有任何事物是孤立存在的。 我们必须停止假装我们是可以独立完成任务的个体。

In reality, humility means nothing other than complete honesty about yourself.

事实上,谦逊只意味着对自己完全诚实。

Habit converts luxurious enjoyments into dull and daily necessities.

习惯把奢侈的享受变成枯燥的生活必需品。

Habit is the nursery of errors.

习惯是错误的温床。