Life is a matter of dealing with other people, in little matters and cataclysmic ones, and that means a series of conversations.

  • -- Deborah Tannen 德博拉·坦嫩

生活就是和别人打交道,不管是小事情还是大灾难,这意味着一系列的对话。

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The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention.... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

与他人沟通最基本、最有力的方式就是倾听。只是听。也许我们给予彼此的最重要的东西就是我们的关注…爱的沉默往往比最善意的话语更能治愈伤痛,更能沟通。

If I am constantly working, my relationships fail. So at least now I can have enough time to write a happy record. And be in love and be happy. And then I don't know what I'll do. Get married. Have some kids. Plant a nice vegetable patch.

如果我一直工作,我的人际关系就会失败。所以,至少现在我可以有足够的时间写一个快乐的记录。要爱,要快乐。然后我不知道该怎么做。结婚。有一些孩子。种一块漂亮的菜地。

Two prisoners whose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on the wall. The wall is the thing which separates them but is also their means of communication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link.

两个牢房相邻的犯人靠敲墙来交流。墙是分隔他们的东西,也是他们交流的工具。我们和神也是如此。每一次分离都是一个环节。

Solid character will reflect itself in consistent behavior, while poor character will seek to hide behind deceptive words and actions.

坚强的性格会在始终如一的行为中体现出来,而软弱的性格则会在虚伪的言行背后寻求庇护。