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I want to appreciate you without judging. Join you without invading. Invite you without demanding. Leave you without guilt.

  • -- Virginia Satir 弗吉尼亚萨蒂尔

我想不加评判地欣赏你。加入你而不入侵。不要求就邀请你。让你没有罪恶感。

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We have learned to say that the good must be extended to all of society before it can be held secure by any one person or any one class. But we have not yet learned to add to that statement, that unless all [people] and all classes contribute to a good, we cannot even be sure that it is worth having.

我们已经学会说，只有把善扩展到整个社会，才能使任何一个人或任何一个阶层得到保障。但是，我们还没有学会给这句话加上一句:除非所有的人、所有的阶级都为一件好事做出贡献，否则我们甚至不能肯定它是否值得拥有。

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Without self-confidence we are as babes in the cradle. And how can we generate this imponderable quality, which is yet so invaluable, most quickly? By thinking that other people are inferior to oneself.

没有自信，我们就像摇篮里的婴儿。我们如何才能以最快的速度产生这种不可估量的、但又是无价的品质呢?认为别人不如自己。

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You do not define anyone with your judgment. You only define yourself as someone who needs to judge.

你不能用你的判断去定义任何人。你只把自己定义为一个需要评判的人。

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Don't wait for the Last Judgment. It happens every day.

不要等待最后的判决。这种事每天都在发生。

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