So, then you find yourself in a situation where you have to do things because they're on offer to you, because you don't have much self-respect left. You just can't say no, even to something that you've never done before. You just can't help yourself.

所以，你会发现自己处于这样一种境地，你不得不去做一些事情，因为它们是提供给你的，因为你已经没有多少自尊了。你不能拒绝，即使是你从未做过的事情。你就是控制不了自己。