I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patience, love, openness and the willingness to remain vulnerable.
我不相信纯粹的苦难能带来教益。如果只教受苦的人受苦，全世界都会有智慧，因为每个人都会受苦。除了痛苦，还必须有哀悼、理解、耐心、爱、开放和保持脆弱的意愿。