Let your children see you kiss. Let them see you embrace. Let them overhear your teasing, your gentle rebukes, even your well-intentioned jealousy. Domestic courtship reinforces the notion that people are together because they want to be together, not because it is the decent, practical thing to do.
让你的孩子看到你亲吻。让他们看到你的拥抱。愿他们听见你的戏笑，你的温和责备，并你的嫉妒。家庭求爱强化了这样一种观念:人们在一起是因为他们想要在一起，而不是因为这是一件体面、实际的事情。