When we understand the needs that motivate our own and other's behavior, we have no enemies.

  • -- Marshall Rosenberg 马歇尔·罗森柏格

当我们理解了激励自己和他人行为的需求时,我们就没有敌人了。

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And I think people who sort of glibly say, 'Well, you know, they're not going to handle security, UAE is a great ally,' four and a half years ago, they were not an ally, they were working with the enemy, and if those same people are still there today that were there then, these are real serious issues.

我认为人流利地说,“嗯,你知道,他们不会处理安全,阿联酋是一个伟大的盟友,”四年半前,他们没有一个盟友,他们与敌人合作,如果这些人今天还在那里,在那里,这些是真正的严重问题。

So when you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it.

所以当你全神贯注地听别人说话时,你不仅是在听他说的话,而且是在听他所表达的感情,是在听他说话的全部内容,而不是其中的一部分。

Good fiction creates empathy. A novel takes you somewhere and asks you to look through the eyes of another person, to live another life.

好的小说创造同理心。一部小说带你去某个地方,让你透过另一个人的眼睛去看另一个人,去过另一种生活。

People crushed by law have no hopes but from power. If laws are their enemies, they will be enemies to laws.

被法律压垮的人没有希望,只有权力。如果法律是他们的敌人,他们就会成为法律的敌人。