There are many benefits to this process of listening. The first is that good listeners are created as people feel listened to. Listening is a reciprocal process - we become more attentive to others if they have attended to us.

  • -- Margaret J. Wheatley 玛格丽特·J·惠特利

这种倾听的过程有很多好处。首先,好的倾听者是在人们感觉被倾听时产生的。倾听是一个互惠的过程——如果别人注意到我们,我们就会变得更注意别人。

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Telling us to obey instinct is like telling us to obey 'people.' People say different things: so do instincts. Our instincts are at war... Each instinct, if you listen to it, will claim to be gratified at the expense of the rest.

告诉我们要服从本能就像告诉我们要服从人一样。人们会说不同的话,直觉也是如此。我们的本能处于战争状态…每一种本能,如果你听从它,都会声称以牺牲其他本能为代价而得到满足。

Talk to a man about himself and he will listen for hours.

和一个人谈论他自己,他会听上好几个小时。