The husband - by primitive instinct partly, certainly by ancient tradition - regards himself as the active partner in matters of love and his own pleasure as legitimately the prime motive for activity.

  • -- Havelock Ellis 霭理士

丈夫——部分出于原始本能,当然也有古代传统——认为自己在爱情问题上是积极的伴侣,而他自己的快乐也理所当然地成为活动的主要动机。