Always set high value on spontaneous kindness. He whose inclination prompts him to cultivate your friendship of his own accord will love you more than one whom you have been at pains to attach to you.
总是高度重视自发的善意。如果一个人的倾向促使他自愿地和你建立友谊，那么他爱你的程度就会超过你苦心追求的那个人。