So when you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it.

  • -- Jiddu Krishnamurti 克里希纳穆提

所以当你全神贯注地听别人说话时,你不仅是在听他说的话,而且是在听他所表达的感情,是在听他说话的全部内容,而不是其中的一部分。

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Positive social emotions like compassion and empathy are generally good for us, and we want to encourage them. But do we know how to most reliably raise children to care about the suffering of other people? I'm not sure we do.

积极的社会情感,如同情和同理心,通常对我们有好处,我们想鼓励它们。但我们知道如何最可靠地抚养孩子去关心他人的痛苦吗?我不确定。

When I speak of the gifted listener, I am thinking of the nonmusician primarily, of the listener who intends to retain his amateur status. It is the thought of just such a listener that excites the composer in me.

当我说到有天赋的听众时,我首先想到的是那些不懂音乐的人,那些想要保持业余状态的听众。正是这样一个听众的想法让我内心深处的作曲家激动不已。

I don't want kids listening to my music thinking it's for their parents. I want them to feel it's theirs.

我不希望孩子们听我的音乐时以为是给他们的父母听的。我想让他们觉得这是他们的。

One should examine oneself for a very long time before thinking of condemning others.

一个人在想要谴责别人之前,应该反省自己很长一段时间。