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People could rationally decide that prolonged relationships take up too much time and effort and that they'd much rather do other kinds of things. But most people are afraid of rejection.

  • -- Albert Ellis 艾伯特·埃利斯

人们可以理性地认为，长期的恋爱关系占用了太多的时间和精力，他们宁愿做其他事情。但是大多数人害怕被拒绝。

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In my own relationships, I know that I should break up with someone who doesn't encourage me to be strong and make my own choices and do what's best in my life, so if you're dating someone who doesn't want you to be the best person you can be, you shouldn't be dating them.

在我自己的人际关系,我知道我应该分手不鼓励我坚强的人,让我自己选择,做最好的在我的生活中,如果你约会的人不希望你是最好的人,你不应该和他们约会。

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As actors, we deal with rejection so much more than any other business. So I don't care how much of a genius you are, if you don't have the propensity to be able to get back up every time you get knocked down, then you're not going to survive.

作为演员，我们处理拒绝比处理其他任何事情都要多。所以我不在乎你有多天才，如果你没有在每次被打倒的时候都能站起来的倾向，那么你就活不下去了。

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I suppose I was a little bit of what would be called today a nerd. I didn't have girlfriends, and really I wasn't a very social boy.

我想我有点像今天所谓的书呆子。我没有女朋友，而且我真的不是一个很合群的男孩。

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I just think we're living in a time of massive, amazing change, like the Industrial Revolution on acid.

我只是认为我们生活在一个巨大的，惊人的变化的时代，就像酸的工业革命。

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The real problem is not why some pious, humble, believing people suffer, but why some do not.

真正的问题不是为什么有些虔诚、谦卑、有信仰的人受苦，而是为什么有些人不受苦。

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Past relationships are nothing more than a collection of songs you can no longer listen to.

过去的恋情只不过是一堆你再也听不下去的歌。

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Despite the rejection, and in violation of all the rules, I came back year after year.

尽管遭到拒绝，而且违反了所有的规定，我还是年复一年地回来了。

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We forget even incense in easy times; come hard times, we embrace the Buddha's feet.

在顺境中，我们甚至忘记了香;遇到困难的时候，我们拥抱佛陀的脚。

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People think what you are doing is real, on a TV show.

人们认为你在电视节目中所做的是真实的。

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People generally didn't cheat in good relationships.

在良好的关系中，人们一般不会欺骗。

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