Only through our connectedness to others can we really know and enhance the self. And only through working on the self can we begin to enhance our connectedness to others.

  • -- Harriet Lerner 哈里特·勒纳

只有通过与他人的联系,我们才能真正了解并提升自我。只有通过自我的努力,我们才能开始增强与他人的联系。

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If you see a whole thing - it seems that it's always beautiful. Planets, lives.... But close up a world's all dirt and rocks. And day to day, life's a hard job, you get tired, you lose the pattern.

如果你看到一个整体——它似乎总是美丽的。行星,生命....但是把世界上所有的泥土和岩石都封闭起来。日复一日,生活是一项艰难的工作,你感到疲惫,你失去了模式。

Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves.

当你的朋友要求你对他们诚实时,不要相信他们。他们真正想要的是保持对自己的好感。

First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.

首先告诉自己你想成为什么样的人;然后做你必须做的。

The web of our life is of a mingled yarn, good and ill together.

我们生活的网是由一根好坏交织在一起的纱线织成的。