The very ingredients that nurture love mutuality, reciprocity, protection, worry, responsibility for the other are sometimes the very ingredients that stifle desire.

  • -- Esther Perel 佩瑞尔

培养爱的基本要素是相互关系,互惠,保护,担忧,对他人的责任有时正是抑制欲望的基本要素。