When a mother quarrels with a daughter, she has a double dose of unhappiness hers from the conflict, and empathy with her daughter's from the conflict with her. Throughout her life a mother retains this special need to maintain a good relationship with her daughter.

  • -- Terri Apter 阿普特

当一位母亲与女儿争吵时,她会因冲突而产生双倍的不快乐,并因与女儿的冲突而产生同理心。母亲在一生中都保持着与女儿保持良好关系的特殊需要。

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We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a widower that man who has lost his wife. But that man who has known the immense unhappiness of losing a friend, by what name do we call him? Here every language is silent and holds its peace in impotence.

我们称失去父亲的人为孤儿;一个失去妻子的鳏夫。但是,这个人知道失去朋友的巨大痛苦,我们用什么名字称呼他呢?在这里,每一种语言都是沉默的,在无能为力中保持着平静。

Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons. Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves.

时间能治愈悲伤和争吵,因为我们变了,不再是同一个人。冒犯者和被冒犯者都不再是他们自己。

The best relationship is where you can lay with each other and just talk about anything and everything.

最好的关系就是你们可以躺在一起,什么都可以谈。

All of our unhappiness comes from our inability to be alone.

我们所有的不快乐都来自于我们无法独处。

You can't go through a divorce and then get back together.

你不能经历离婚后又复合。

Is thy mother-in-law quarrelsome ? Divorce her daughter.

你岳母吵架吗?她的女儿离婚。