When a mother quarrels with a daughter, she has a double dose of unhappiness hers from the conflict, and empathy with her daughter's from the conflict with her. Throughout her life a mother retains this special need to maintain a good relationship with her daughter.

  • -- Terri Apter 阿普特

当一位母亲与女儿争吵时,她会因冲突而产生双倍的不快乐,并因与女儿的冲突而产生同理心。母亲在一生中都保持着与女儿保持良好关系的特殊需要。

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If you're lucky like me, your relationship with your brother has resolved itself on the peaceful side of the fence and has stayed there. But if you're someone who's got a family that's all fractured and finding it hard to relate, that's a very sad place to be.

如果你像我一样幸运,你和你哥哥的关系已经在和平的那一边解决了,并一直保持在那里。但如果你的家庭支离破碎,很难与人相处,那将是一个非常悲伤的地方。

She bowed her head, clasping her hands tightly before her upon the arm of his chair, for her heart yearned towards him, yet could not reach him, and it made her throat ache with unhappiness to meet that look of his that rested on her face without seeing it.

她低着头,双手紧紧地握在他椅子的扶手上,因为她的心渴望着他,但又够不着他。她看见他那没有看见的、落在她脸上的表情,喉咙痛得难受。

I think it was very impertinent of him to write to you at all, and very hypocritical. I hate such false friends. Why could not he keep on quarrelling with you, as his father did before him?

我认为他写信给你,既没有礼貌,又很虚伪。我讨厌这种虚伪的朋友。为什么他不能像他父亲在他之前那样,继续和你争吵呢?

You should not quarrel with your neighbour, for he will remain where he is, but your high handedness will become the talk of the people.

你不可与邻舍争竞,因为他必住在原处。你的强暴必成为百姓谈论的话题。

It's about strengthening the relationship and the bond of parent to child.

它是关于加强父母和孩子之间的关系和纽带。

Failure and unhappiness is easier because you can make a joke out of it.

失败和不快乐更容易,因为你可以拿它开玩笑。