In middle age we are apt to reach the horrifying conclusion that all sorrow, all pain, all passionate regret and loss and bitter disillusionment are self-made.

  • -- Kathleen Norris 凯瑟琳·诺里斯

到了中年,我们往往会得出一个可怕的结论:所有的悲伤、所有的痛苦、所有充满激情的悔恨、失去和痛苦的幻灭都是自己造成的。