I wrote several articles criticizing psychoanalysis, but the analysts weren't listening to my objections. So I finally quit after practicing it for six years.

  • -- Albert Ellis 艾伯特·埃利斯

我写了几篇文章批评精神分析学,但分析师们没有听我的反对意见。所以我练了六年终于戒了。

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Psychoanalysis pretends to investigate the Unconscious. The Unconscious by definition is what you are not conscious of. But the Analysts already know what's in it - they should, because they put it all in beforehand.

精神分析学假装调查无意识。无意识的定义就是你没有意识到的东西。但分析师们已经知道其中的内容——他们应该知道,因为他们事先就把所有内容都写进去了。

We set up one rule in our house, which is, 'Guests of guests cannot bring guests.' That rule was required because that happened one weekend, and we finally said, 'Okay, you know what? That's a little too much.'

我们家有一条规矩,就是客人的客人不能带客人来。这条规定是必要的,因为那是在一个周末发生的,我们最后说,好吧,你知道吗?这有点太过分了。”

There's always a reaction based on fear. People assume if you're criticizing a decision to go to war, then you're saying something against the soldiers-which is not the case.

人们的反应总是基于恐惧。人们认为,如果你批评一项参战的决定,那么你就是在说士兵的坏话——事实并非如此。

I will tell you what I can't abide - and I think the Internet has really created a space for it - women criticizing other women and mothers criticizing other mothers.

我要告诉你什么是我不能忍受的——我认为互联网确实为它创造了一个空间——女性批评其他女性,母亲批评其他母亲。

Every girl that one guy she goes back to, heartbreak after heartbreak and nobody know why, not even her. And she just can't let go.

每一个女孩,每一个男人,每一次的心碎,没有人知道为什么,即使是她也不知道。她就是放不下。

Only the liberation of the natural capacity for love in human beings can master their sadistic destructiveness.

只有解放人类天生的爱的能力,才能控制其施虐的破坏性。

When I quit all these things and said I didn't have any time, I meant I didn't have any time.

当我放弃所有这些事情,说我没有时间的时候,我的意思是我没有时间。

I think god after i wake up every morning because he has given me another day to live.

我认为上帝每天早上醒来后,因为他给了我另一天的生活。

Maybe it's our sins that give God consolation when he finally has to give us cancer.

也许是我们的罪给了上帝安慰,当他最终不得不给我们癌症。

I quit driving, I'm not retired.

我不开车了,我没有退休。