Understand that it is often unwise to forgive face to face. This tends to make the other person feel 'put down' and make you look holier-than-thou.

要明白,当面原谅往往是不明智的。这往往会让对方感到“被贬低”,让你看起来比自己更神圣。

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The wise become as the unwise in the enchanted chambers of Power, whose lamps make every face the same colour.

在充满魔力的权力之屋中,每一张脸都被灯光照亮,聪明的人就像不聪明的人一样。

Forgiveness is a funny thing. It warms the heart and cools the sting.

宽恕是一件有趣的事情。它温暖心脏,冷却刺痛。

To forgive all is as inhuman as to forgive none.

宽恕所有人就像不宽恕任何人一样不人道。