Understand that it is often unwise to forgive face to face. This tends to make the other person feel 'put down' and make you look holier-than-thou.

要明白，当面原谅往往是不明智的。这往往会让对方感到“被贬低”，让你看起来比自己更神圣。

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But Paul, in his preaching of the Gospel, is a debtor to deliver the word not to Barbarians only, but also to Greeks, and not only to the unwise, who would easily agree with him, but also to the wise.

但保罗在传福音的时候，不但欠外邦人的债，也欠希利尼人的债。不但欠那轻易敌挡他的愚拙人的债，也欠那智慧人的债。

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The wise become as the unwise in the enchanted chambers of Power, whose lamps make every face the same colour.

在充满魔力的权力之屋中，每一张脸都被灯光照亮，聪明的人就像不聪明的人一样。

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Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.

宽恕是紫罗兰洒在压碎它的脚跟上的芬芳。

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It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.

宽恕敌人比宽恕朋友容易。

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