There are two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone who won't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

  • -- Danny DeVito 丹尼·德维托

有两个难题让人类头盖骨直打颤:你如何抓住一个不肯留下的人?你如何摆脱一个不愿去的人呢?

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For years my wedding ring has done its job. It has led me not into temptation. It has reminded my husband numerous times at parties that it's time to go home. It has been a source of relief to a dinner companion. It has been a status symbol in the maternity ward.

多年来,我的结婚戒指一直发挥着它的作用。它没有使我陷入诱惑。它在聚会上多次提醒我丈夫该回家了。这对晚餐同伴来说是一种解脱。它已经成为产科病房的身份象征。

Conflict is the gadfly of thought. It stirs us to observation and memory. It instigates to invention. It shocks us out of sheeplike passivity, and sets us at noting and contriving.

冲突是思想的牛虻。它激励我们去观察和记忆。它促进发明。它使我们摆脱了盲从的被动状态,使我们善于注意和设计。

Most of these alternative arrangements, so-called, arise out of the ruins of marriages, not as an improvement of old fashioned marriage.

这些所谓的替代安排大多是在婚姻的废墟上产生的,而不是作为旧式婚姻的一种改进。

Dramatically, I like darkness, I like conflict - but I don't see the world as defined by them.

戏剧性的是,我喜欢黑暗,我喜欢冲突——但我不认为世界是由他们定义的。