Falling in love was simple; one had only to yield. Digesting another person, however, and sustaining love, was bloody work, and not a soft job.

  • -- Hanif Kureishi 哈尼夫·库雷西

坠入爱河很简单;一个人只能屈服。然而,理解另一个人,维持爱,是一项血腥的工作,而不是一项轻松的工作。