It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others.

  • -- Sydney J. Harris 悉尼J.哈里斯

令人惊讶的是,很多人在一生中都没有意识到他们对别人的感觉很大程度上是由他们对自己的感觉决定的。

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There are no prescriptive solutions, no grand designs for grand problems. Life's solutions lie in the minute particulars involving more and more individual people daring to create their own life and art, daring to listen to the voice within their deepest, original nature, and deeper still, the voice within the earth.

没有规定的解决方案,没有针对重大问题的宏大设计。生活的解决之道就在于那些涉及到越来越多敢于创造自己的生活和艺术的个人的细小细节,敢于倾听他们内心最深处、最原始的、甚至更深层次的声音——地球内部的声音。

What woman here is so enamored of her own oppression that she cannot see her heelprint upon another woman's face? What woman's terms of oppression have become precious and necessary to her as a ticket into the fold of the righteous, away from the cold winds of self-scrutiny?

这里有哪个女人如此迷恋自己所受的压迫,以至于看不到自己的脚后跟印在另一个女人的脸上?什么样的女人的压迫条件对她来说已经变得珍贵和必要,就像一张门票,进入正义的怀抱,远离自我审视的寒风?

An oak and a reed were arguing about their strength. When a strong wind came up, the reed avoided being uprooted by bending and leaning with the gusts of wind. But the oak stood firm and was torn up by the roots.

一棵橡树和一根芦苇在争论它们的力量。当刮起大风时,芦苇会被大风吹弯或倾斜,以避免被连根拔起。但橡树挺立得很稳,被连根拔起。

A little anger is a good thing if it isn't on your own behalf, if it's for others deserving of your anger, your empathy.

如果不是为了你自己,如果是为了那些值得你生气的人,你的同情心,那么一点点的愤怒是一件好事。

I don't never have any trouble in regulating my own conduct, but to keep other folks' straight is what bothers me.

我在规范自己的行为方面从来没有遇到过任何麻烦,但是让别人保持正直才是让我烦恼的。

The great soul surrenders itself to fate.

伟大的灵魂向命运投降。